I believe in Out of Sight, Out of Mind. Maybe it sounds very pessismistic, but it happens to me.. If I don't meet someone for a very long time, that person will tend to fade away from my life, no matter how much I try to keep in contact through msn or phonecalls. I guess "presence" is very important in any relationship. So many things and events can go on in two different people's lives when they're apart..thus no matter how important they are to each other, nothing will ever be the same again when they next meet, no matter how hard they try.
But having said that - try not to forget me in Nottingham k!!!!
I think this depends on how long 2 people are separated. If its a short time, like mabbie 2 weeks, then this absence may make the heart grow fonder. But if the time is too long, then the latter may apply... hmmm... somehow my analysis seems kinda engineering... hhaha...
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I believe in Out of Sight, Out of Mind. Maybe it sounds very pessismistic, but it happens to me.. If I don't meet someone for a very long time, that person will tend to fade away from my life, no matter how much I try to keep in contact through msn or phonecalls. I guess "presence" is very important in any relationship. So many things and events can go on in two different people's lives when they're apart..thus no matter how important they are to each other, nothing will ever be the same again when they next meet, no matter how hard they try.
But having said that - try not to forget me in Nottingham k!!!!
I think this depends on how long 2 people are separated. If its a short time, like mabbie 2 weeks, then this absence may make the heart grow fonder. But if the time is too long, then the latter may apply... hmmm... somehow my analysis seems kinda engineering... hhaha...
jx
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