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The Typical Two-Timing Scenario
A friend of mine is dating a girl who is attached. The girl said she like my friend more, but does not want to discuss about breaking up with her boyfriend. In their 'confusion', she ends up dating both guys for a period of time. Till now.My friend is tired. Staying on hurts. And hanging in mid-air like this doesn't seem to get him anywhere.Sometimes, giving an ultimatum helps. If the girl cannot bear to lose you, the 3rd party, she will break up with her boyfriend to be with you. If she cannot decide now, she will probably never be ready to decide about you. She may just want the best of both worlds. It is better to drop such a girl, because she may one day do same thing to you when you are together. That is, two-time you. At least, this has happened to some friends I know.You know, we often run into 'glitches' in our lives. The best person to listen to, may not be our friends, it may instead, be this little voice in all of us. Even during the darkest hour, we will sometimes hear a small voice inside, telling us what we should be doing instead.It could the 'missing' logical part of us. Our head.Magnifying the voice will sometimes lead us to the best solution to the problem at hand.Because I believe, that a relationship need not have so much pain before you enjoy the happiness. And inside us, we all know it. We just need to get around to do something about it.

copied from a block i saw.. haha somehow the guy sounds like me.... advice taken....i will start listening to myself..